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What I'm Learning About ... Singleness

What I'm Learning About ... Singleness

One doesn't have to be the loneliest number.

Singleness doesn't have to be all doom and gloom. In fact, much can be gained from seasons of waiting. Here are some tips from our contributors on how to stay focused on Christ while making the most of time spent alone—whether it be 20 minutes or 20 years.

Camerin Courtney


I'm not ashamed to admit it: I spend a lot of time alone. I'm a never-married 30something woman who has no children, who lives alone, and who spends most days in an office by myself. And in all my years of alone time—eating alone, driving alone, sleeping alone—I've learned a valuable lesson: Alone isn't the same as lonely.

I'll be honest, some of this truth sunk in by default as I felt and observed loneliness in the most unusual places. Several years ago I attended a Chris Tomlin worship concert with friends. Standing in this crowd of a couple thousand people, with eyes closed, arms raised, and voices joined, I felt a searing stab of loneliness.

I'd been experiencing a "dark night of the soul"—lobbing ...

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August 2011

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