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The Woman at the Well: Thirsty for Truth

The Woman at the Well: Thirsty for Truth

John 4:5-42
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We don't know her name or age. But her conversation with the Lord is his longest one-on-one chat recorded in Scripture. Reason enough to give our sister from Samaria a fresh look.

It was high noon on a hot day. Jesus, tired from traveling, chose a sensible rest stop—Jacob's well outside the town of Sychar—while waiting for his disciples to go into town for food. When our unnamed woman appeared with clay jar in hand, Jesus made a simple request: "Will you give me a drink?" (John 4:7).

Uh-oh. (1) Jews weren't supposed to speak to Samaritans. (2) Men weren't permitted to address women without their husbands present. And (3) rabbis had no business speaking to shady ladies such as this one. Jesus was willing to toss out the rules, but our woman at the well wasn't. "You are a Jew and I am a Samaritan woman," she reminded him. "How can you ask me for a drink?" (John 4:9).

She focused on the law; Jesus focused on grace.

An Offer She Couldn't Refuse

He began, "If you knew the gift of God … " (John 4:10). If. A tantalizing invitation. And gift. A truly irresistible offering. Especially "the gift that came by the grace of the one man, Jesus Christ" (Romans 5:15).

Instead of insisting she pour him a drink, the Lord offered her "living water" (John 4:10). Water from the ground was common, but living water? Now he had her attention.

This polite but gutsy woman pointed out the obvious: "You have nothing to draw with and the well is deep. Where can you get this living water?" (John 4:11). Her natural curiosity prompted her to ask questions, as seekers do today. Such queries are no cause for nervousness. Jesus knows how to handle doubt and disbelief.

To quench her spiritual thirst, the Lord first confessed the truth about plain H2O: "Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again" (John 4:13). Then Jesus made a bold promise: "Whoever drinks the water I give him will never thirst" (John 4:14). In one sentence he shifted from everyday life to everlasting life.

Was our girl ready for that leap of faith? Not quite. She wanted whatever he was offering, but only so she could avoid returning to the well for water. If we're honest, we get this motivation. Eager to satisfy our physical desires, we overlook our spiritual needs.

Time for an intervention.

Speaking the Truth in Love

Jesus told her, "Go, call your husband and come back" (John 4:16). Not an odd request, since women couldn't converse alone with a man in a public place. But Jesus' request was more about uncovering truth than about following society's rules.

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Vida Carol Catledge

July 10, 2014  7:41am

I think some "commenters" on this site are missing the whole point of the story. The point is that Jesus did not condemn the woman at the well, in spite of what may have happened in her previous relationships. He pointed out her current status only because that is the only status that matters, that and her future. Her current status and future were changed because of her encounter with Jesus and that's all that matters. Too many times in the "church" single mothers and divorced women are judged but anyone who comes to Christ can be used by Him for His glory. Let them be!

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julie ratusau

March 25, 2014  5:11am

Thank have learnt a lot

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cee

March 22, 2014  9:11am

To SeekandFind's comment: The writer said that the woman at the well many husbands did not make her a sinner. She said that the man she was with now Jesus pointed out as not being her husband putting her in sin. And how do you know if this wasn't the true intention in each verse? I am of the 'Thus saith the Lord" group who am not questioning every little thing the Bible says. I rather sit at the feet of Jesus, the Word, and learn.

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